Happy Spring


Due to the convergence of holidays for many faiths during this season, we are taking a break from posting a blog this month. 

However, as always we are looking for passionate writers for upcoming entries. Are you NC Clergy or know NC Clergy who would like to write a Clergy Reflections entry? Our blog is an inter-faith project aimed at assisting all of us in understanding ways to minister more effectively. We seek a variety of voices and pastoral perspectives/responses across the wide spectrum of mental health challenges within our congregations.

Reflections that are personal and pastoral in nature are especially appreciated. For more information or questions regarding submitting an entry, please email ClergyMHBlog@gmail.com

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